4.04.2009

Friends


Friends mean a lot to us. Since Mollie's cancer diagnosis, we have strengthened friendships with people we already knew. Mollie's best friend Isabella and her family have been there for us every time we've needed them (even if we didn't know we needed them) and I can't say enough good things about them. And our friends from around the country have been a tremendous support.

We also have new friends that we probably wouldn't know if Mollie didn't have leukemia. Other families from clinic, people from Team in Training, and other people who have been affected by cancer.

Courson's family gave Mollie some birthday money this week and it made her day! She picked a toy store and spent at least 45 minutes deciding what she wanted to buy. After her spinal tap and before the toystore, we met Zackary and his mom at Stevi B's for pizza and games!

On Friday, we met up with some other friends at the park... Abi is about Mollie's age and her little sister was diagnosed with leukemia when we were in the hospital in December. Mollie and Abi are on the same wavelength and had fun playing (that's them jumping in the photo).

I bumped into a friend from TNT yesterday at the store and it reminded me that our online buddy, Rhian, is going to be running the Hibiscus Half Marathon in Hawaii in honor of Mollie. I can't find her fundraising page online, but you can read her post about it here.

4.01.2009

No foolin'

Mollie's spinal and IV chemo went very well yesterday. She couldn't eat because of the anesthesia, so she was miserably hungry all morning. That made the port access, blood draw, and the waiting much more difficult for both of us. I was fasting too (except for coffee)- I wouldn't even consider eating in front of her. It wasn't too bad as far as spinal taps go: we got to clinic when it opened at 9 and we were in the car to go home at 1:45. Then we met up with Zachary and Carrie at the pizza place and Mollie ate two plates of pasta, breadsticks, and shredded cheese!

We are laying low today because the steroids are already having an effect- Mollie has sunken eyes and is very, very tired. It's rainy and dreary outside, so it's a good day to stay in.

3.29.2009

Birthday Blast

Mollie had a great time at Isabella's birthday party today! It was at one of those jumping places (indoor inflatable playground) and Mollie just kept jumping and jumping. It was a great group of kids-- she got to spend plenty of time with Isabella, but also enjoyed playing with other kids (including Jonathan, who helped her brave the big, steep slide). We stayed over 3 hours and Mollie was pretty worn out, but it was great to see her having so much fun and being so active!

We travelled light (no camera) so, no pictures, just good memories. I'm glad she got this in before starting steroids this week. Tuesday, she has her spinal chemo, IV chemo, and begins the 5-days of steroids.

Our friend Gage is still in the hospital. Last night I brought him a goody bag from Mollie and visited with his mama for a little while. So, despite our awful ER visit last week, I'm thankful they let us go home and that Mollie didn't get admitted. We hope Gage gets to go home tomorrow!

3.27.2009

Miracle Marathon

Last night we went to the Miracle Marathon, an event that raises money for the MCG Children's Medical Center. They had a jumping tent, face painting, live music, and a hypnotist. And lots of food and candy... Mollie had a blast. She met a couple of other girls her age and they even got up on stage with the hypnotist!

Unfortunately, our friend Gage went to the ER with fever yesterday. His family lives 4 hours from the hospital! I may make a trip down there to drop off some candy and magazines (and a good cup of coffee) today.

Have a good weekend!

3.26.2009

A different kind of zoo

A few hours after posting Tuesday night, I was getting ready for bed when Mollie came downstairs burning up with a temperature of 104°! After taking her temp several times with different thermometers, we decided we better page the on call oncologist and head to the hospital. Unfortunately, it was after midnight and the pediatric ER was closed so we had to go to the adult side.

The ER attending was Dr. Lyons, the same doctor who treated me just before Mollie was diagnosed. He was great- very gentle with Mollie and good at communicating what the plan was. So the plan was to draw labs to measure Mollie's blood counts and do a blood culture; if her counts were good (not neutropenic), she would get IV antibiotics and go home. If not, she would be admitted. That was the good part of the night.

The bad part is that in the adult ER, nobody knows how to access ports! It was a long time before anyone came in to draw blood (I imagine them all standing around in the hallway saying, "I'm not gonna do it. I don't know how to do it."). They kept asking questions about what kind of needle, etc. So, I was worried, but the nurse that finally came in to do it was very kind to Mollie and seemed confident. But, she had no idea what she was doing and she stuck Mollie 3 times before I asked her to stop and get someone else. Finally another nurse came in and successfully accessed Mollie's port- but she was not the most gentle and understanding person and kept telling Mollie that it didn't hurt because she had the lidocaine cream on. Um, yeah, it didn't hurt the nurse. On one of the message boards I read, a parent suggested that every time a nurse tells a child that it's not going to hurt and it does, the child should get to stick the nurse with a needle!!

Anyway, once she was accessed, they drew blood and it was just time sitting around waiting for the results. Mollie slept and I sat in a hard plastic chair. Finally, around 5 am, the counts came back. The neutrophils were on the high side, an indicator of infection, and they gave her the IV antibiotics and we were on our merry way just before 7 am.

I slept for about 3 hours before we had to turn around and go in to clinic for follow up. The blood cultures were negative, but they wanted to access her again to repeat the labs. When nurse Pam accessed Mollie's port in the clinic, she said, "I know they hurt you over there in the ER, so I'm going to be extra gentle." Mollie didn't even bat an eyelash when the needle went in. I so wish we could just drop by Pam's house on our way to the ER!! They were still concerned about infection because the differential showed elevated banded neutrophils, so she got more IV antibiotics and then we were ready to go home. Matt had left earlier to take Lucy home for a nap and unfortunately, my keys, wallet, and cell phone were in the diaper bag. This is what happens when you get no sleep and spend the entire night in a hard plastic lawn chair! We finally got in touch with him and he turned around to bring me my keys and we had a lovely drive-thru dinner at McDonald's before going home. That gave me about 30 minutes to change my clothes before I headed out to teach my Weds. night class!

So, we didn't make it to the zoo (unless you count the ER), but we will go during spring break instead. Next Tues., Mollie is scheduled for a spinal tap/chemo. Beth, Mollie's NP, said her counts may drop after this infection; they will go ahead with the spinal and IV chemo even if her counts are low, but they will hold or reduce the oral chemo if her counts are below 750. So... we'll see what happens. Thanks for all the well wishes and for helping us keep the present box full of goodies for Mollie to pick out after she undergoes any kind of medical treatment/procedure.

3.24.2009

Zoo bound

Mollie doesn't have school tomorrow, so we are heading to the zoo. My goal is to make her walk a lot... I am concerned about her stamina and gait so we are making an effort to do more aerobic activities. Now, if only I could get her to wear running/athletic shoes instead of "cute" shoes I think we could make some progress.

Here are a few pictures from last weekend:

First, Mollie in her gardening attire-


Mollie with our friends' new baby, Graham-

3.20.2009

Week in Review


Thank goodness for "normal". Mollie has had a healthy, normal week. The weather as been lovely (except for a thick coating of pollen everywhere), so we have been going outside to practice throwing, catching, and hitting a baseball. Being sick and weakened for so long has definitely affected Mollie's endurance- she was winded just from walking around the block. But we're working on it.

Mollie made the Beeper this week (http://www.mcg.edu/news/beeper/) and she's enjoying her little bit of celebrity. She is definitely hitting her stride at school and looks forward to it every day. We are also trying to learn German. Mollie has a good memory for vocabulary, but it's difficult to try to teach sentences.

Mollie has been enjoying her birthday gifts...it's been an "extended" birthday, with something special arriving in the mail each day since the beginning of March. No wonder her new favorite activity is checking the mailbox!! In the photo, Mollie is with her doll, Kirsten. They are wearing matching German dirndls- the one Mollie has on was mine, brought by my grandpa from Germany when I was little, and the one on the doll was handmade by my great aunt Nancy. She has made a whole wardrobe for Mollie's doll!

Our friends Pam and Brandon had a baby boy on St. Patrick's day and Mollie wants to see him, so that's probably what we're up to this weekend.